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faux pas (
IPA , plural: ''faux pas'' ) is a violation of accepted, although unwritten, social rules. Faux pas vary widely from culture to culture and what is considered good
manners in one culture can be considered a faux pas in another. For example, in
English-speaking Western countries, it is sometimes considered a thoughtful gesture to bring a bottle of
wine when going to someone's house for dinner. In
France, however, if the dinner is a bit formal, this is considered insulting as it suggests the hosts are unable to provide their own good wine. To bring wine to the home of
teetotalers might suggest ignorance, obstinance, or ill intent.
Origin of term
The term comes from
French and literally means "false step". However, it is a formal rather than everyday expression in French and does not generally have the figurative meaning used in
English. It is occasionally employed to describe a physical loss of balance or general mistakes (for instance: ''mes faux pas dans la vie'', the mistakes I made in my life). If one uses ''faux pas'' with the English meaning in France, people might think it was a slight grammatical mistake with ''faut pas'', the colloquial pronunciation of ''il ne faut pas'', meaning ''must not'' in English. For ''faux pas'' with the English meaning, the French would usually say ''
gaffe'' or ''erreur''.